It became too much to run a 501c3 and a blog and Twitter and Facebook and so we consolidated our social media presence --
please visit us at www.penparentis.org for a gorgeous ever-changing experience.
Right now, on the website, we have a terrific series of bi-weekly (times are approximate; we all have kids!) interviews with authors who are also parents about the many ways they balance their time. Here are a few to get you started:
Annette Binder
poet K. C. Trimmer
our recent Fellow Jess deCourcy Hinds
salon maven and publisher Vica Miller
writer & mother of four Laura Vanderkam
children's book author (among zillions of other books) Yona Zeldis McDonough
AND if you are just curious about us and our work in general, you can visit our forward-looking page:
penparentis.mydagsite.org
or just ask the local press!!
Pen Parentis - a blog for writers who parent
We welcome your comments and invite you to visit our website at www.penparentis.org
Friday, September 11, 2015
Thursday, October 24, 2013
End of the line - beginning of a new chapter
Friends!!
Pen Parentis has a new website - check us out at penparentis.org !!
You will find exciting stuff like:
this blog!
from now on, our blog posts will appear directly on our website. You can still sign up for an RSS feed or you can bookmark the site and just notice when the homepage alerts you to new content.
Thanks for being so great about reading all our social media in four different locations - the new website will pull them all together--now if only someone would do that for my laundry, soccer practice, violin lessons, my newest chapter, the book I'm editing for a client, publicity for the December Salon, and the rest of my crazy life...!
c'mon over to the new Pen Parentis website.
I think you'll like it.
Pen Parentis has a new website - check us out at penparentis.org !!
You will find exciting stuff like:
this blog!
from now on, our blog posts will appear directly on our website. You can still sign up for an RSS feed or you can bookmark the site and just notice when the homepage alerts you to new content.
Thanks for being so great about reading all our social media in four different locations - the new website will pull them all together--now if only someone would do that for my laundry, soccer practice, violin lessons, my newest chapter, the book I'm editing for a client, publicity for the December Salon, and the rest of my crazy life...!
c'mon over to the new Pen Parentis website.
I think you'll like it.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
On Family-Friendly Fundraisers
There is a special sort of anxiousness that accompanies adult events to which kids are welcome. First you go all-out making sure there is something for the kids to do (we invited the unparalleled Church Street School for Music and Art to do an all-ages bookmaking craft) then you have to make sure the adults will be amply entertained (no worries, we are great at that part!) Then you make sure there is enough wine and that the food will be appropriate for all. (We did a rather carnivorous spread - sorry vegans.) And finally, you cross your fingers, pray the weather holds, and hope it will be fun.
All while knowing that a kid's idea of fun is often very different from yours.
I recall growing up and feeling so privileged when I was allowed to attend an adult-event. A wedding reception. A concert. As a kid, I worried about looking babyish and hoped that the adults didn't find me annoying. I did my best to sit still and took my cue from people older than me. And if I ran around amid the legs of the adults at the end of the night, well, it was only because by then it was hours past my bedtime and I had been fed cake because "the kids are looking sleepy: some sugar should give them a second wind!"
I don't think we needed to worry. At all.
Our rooftop event was well planned and very well received. The kids gathered around the art table as they arrived, and the good folks at Church Street School helped them get to know each other.
Meanwhile, the adults mingled over wine. As the long September rays painted skyscrapers in hues of orange and peach sherbet, a Brazilian jazz guitarist who has played Carnegie Hall (and loves kids!) got up on the stage. His fingers danced across the frets and Hector Vila Lobos tangled across our conversations. Some children sat to listen. Most spun and danced and ran. The sun set further.
Wine was refilled, and the kids grew frenzied. By the time our new curator, Brian Gresko, took the stage to read a hilarious and poignant essay about the changing nature of New York and parenthood, there were two groups in the audience: the adults leaning forward to listen and the packs of thrilled kids streaking madly across the roof from one end to the next.
Thing is: both groups were having fun. Our Fellow of a few years past, Frank Haberle, said some lovely words about the community that Pen Parentis builds and then, as fleets of kids wildly rushed the stage, then off again, he read a great short story--to wild applause, both for the prose and for the Olympic feat of maintaining focus to deliver the piece.
All while knowing that a kid's idea of fun is often very different from yours.
I recall growing up and feeling so privileged when I was allowed to attend an adult-event. A wedding reception. A concert. As a kid, I worried about looking babyish and hoped that the adults didn't find me annoying. I did my best to sit still and took my cue from people older than me. And if I ran around amid the legs of the adults at the end of the night, well, it was only because by then it was hours past my bedtime and I had been fed cake because "the kids are looking sleepy: some sugar should give them a second wind!"
I don't think we needed to worry. At all.
Our rooftop event was well planned and very well received. The kids gathered around the art table as they arrived, and the good folks at Church Street School helped them get to know each other.
Meanwhile, the adults mingled over wine. As the long September rays painted skyscrapers in hues of orange and peach sherbet, a Brazilian jazz guitarist who has played Carnegie Hall (and loves kids!) got up on the stage. His fingers danced across the frets and Hector Vila Lobos tangled across our conversations. Some children sat to listen. Most spun and danced and ran. The sun set further.
Wine was refilled, and the kids grew frenzied. By the time our new curator, Brian Gresko, took the stage to read a hilarious and poignant essay about the changing nature of New York and parenthood, there were two groups in the audience: the adults leaning forward to listen and the packs of thrilled kids streaking madly across the roof from one end to the next.
Thing is: both groups were having fun. Our Fellow of a few years past, Frank Haberle, said some lovely words about the community that Pen Parentis builds and then, as fleets of kids wildly rushed the stage, then off again, he read a great short story--to wild applause, both for the prose and for the Olympic feat of maintaining focus to deliver the piece.
It was such a great night - everyone had fun: the parents, the kids, those of us who had the hilarity of trying to present to a very mobile audience -- and I think more than any other fundraiser I have attended in the past year, ours was purely a celebration of the two organizations' work - the great young musicians that Concert Artist Guild mentors and the amazing community that Pen Parentis, Ltd, is striving to build. Neither executive director showed a pie chart or talked about budgets or needs. We were too busy laughing at the way my daughter decided to upstage me by changing her shoes in the middle of my welcome speech. It was life. It was real. It was hilarious - the whole night - it was delightful and mad and I think it really embodied how honestly difficult it is to balance a serious life in the arts with the tugs and hugs that children demand and require. But we did it. We threw a family-friendly fundraiser. We did it with the generosity of Church Street School, the graciousness of our host and Board Member Allison Scollar, we did it with a small friendly dog and copious tiny hamburgers and three shades of wine. With live jazz and juice boxes. With tag and a barefoot dance party. And your generous donations. We did it. We threw a big party and when it was done, each of our organizations were more than a thousand dollars richer. And that was fantastic, and we thank everyone who came out to support us - and those who just spread the word, or gave online, we salute you, too!
In the end, it was the little happy faces thanking us for including them in their grown-up party that showed us our true riches.
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Sarah Gerkensmeyer to John Jodzio, one Pen Parentis Fellow to another
Today is the day of the changeover - we give a $1000 check to a new Pen Parentis Fellow at the season opener for our Salons. Ten seasons - it's astonishing. We are so thrilled and gratified at the wonderful response that we get from our audiences. Our 2013-2014 Writing Fellow is John Jodzio, who flew in from Minnesota to read for us. On the occasion of John's inauguration into our hall of Fellows, last year's Fellow, Sarah Gerkensmeyer, wrote him a letter. I reproduce it here for you...
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Dear
John,
Congratulations
on being selected as the 2013-2014 Pen Parentis Fellow! I wish I could be there at the first salon of
the season to welcome you to the family in person. This letter will have to do. I thought it would be most helpful for me to
take a practical approach and let you know exactly how I have spent my $1,000
award. While I hope the following budget
breakdown is helpful for you, I also apologize because this is a selfish act on
my part—as these notes will help me think through some of the things I am so
good at avoiding (e.g. keeping close track of expenditures for tax purposes).
$457.98………………………travel
to promote my new book, attend residencies, etc. (including
airfare, lodging, food)
$50.27……………………….several
pats-on-the-back of confidence and motivation
$29.34……………………….an
astounding sense of community
$49.58………………………..a
few late-night delirious moments of: “I am not a strange alien. I
am not completely in this on my own.”
$138.92………………………my
first REAL pair of leather boots, for giving readings and talks,
feeling author-y, etc.
$34.26………………………..the
reassurance that this talk of balancing parenting and writing is
not taboo or strange or petty or inconsequential;
$99.99………………………..access
to a built-in audience of folks who love literature (and
swanky hangout spots)
$60.88……………………….about
two dozen doses of good humor, perspective, and humility
$56.74……………………….networking—I
MET KELLY LINK
$22.05……………………….an
entire year of stellar publicity for my work
$priceless……………………the
amazing, invigorating, bold, inventive, spectacular,
kind, and imaginative work that Pen Parentis does to support the
literary
arts, and to invite someone like little old me into this wild,
wonderful
world
I
hope all of that adds up correctly, John.
But I’m a fiction writer, not a mathematician. And even if the figures are slightly off, I
hope this budget is enough to show you how amazing the honor of being a Pen
Parentis Fellow truly is. You are in for
one beautiful year (and beyond). So
sharpen those pencils and wipe the smudges off the computer screen and get
ready to spend big.
Best,
Sarah Gerkensmeyer
_________
You can buy Sarah's book on Amazon through this link:
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Downtown Literary Salon Turns 10
We are very excited to share this terrific article from Downtown Express:
Downtown Literary Salon Turns 10
please send it around to your friends!
Our September Salon marks the opening of our Tenth Season of programming. Join us Tuesday, September 10th at Andaz Wall Street at 7pm!
Downtown Literary Salon Turns 10
please send it around to your friends!
Our September Salon marks the opening of our Tenth Season of programming. Join us Tuesday, September 10th at Andaz Wall Street at 7pm!
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Welcome Brian Gresko!
We are delighted to welcome a new curator to the Pen Parentis
Literary Salons!
Brian Gresko is the editor of the anthology When I First Held
You: 22 Critically Acclaimed Writers on Fatherhood, forthcoming from
Berkley Books/Penguin on Father's Day, 2014. He has contributed to The Huffington
Post, and written about books and culture for Salon, TheAtlantic.com, The Daily Beast, The Paris Review
Daily, The LA Review of Books, The Rumpus, and numerous other
publications. Brian keeps a daily column on parenting and gender politics for Babble,
where he often writes about balancing his writing life with caring for his son.
In print, Brian's work has appeared in Glimmer Train Stories and Slice
Literary Magazine. He received his MFA in Creative Writing from The New
School, and studied film and literary theory at Oberlin College. Please visit his website for links and more information.
Brian will join us in September as we bid a fond farewell to our
fantastic first curator, Arlaina Tibensky – who will still attend Salons as a
regular, whenever she can fit it into her busy schedule. We are so honored to
have Brian join our ranks!
So if you are an author with kids – or know an author who is
also a parent who writes fiction that knocks your socks off, please email Brian
at info@penparentis.org - now booking Spring 2014!
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Guest Blog - On a Book Tour with a Teen
Hello everyone! We are excited to welcome Brooklynite writer and filmmaker Peter von Ziegesar who wrote his entry while on a recent Reading Tour to Kansas City with his kids. Nostalgic...informative...take it away Peter:
“Bueno, bueno,” says Maya. “The first five minutes, you messed up a few times, but it was fine. The last part was better.”
“Oh, okay.”
“And you know that time when you stopped to tell everyone that it was a metaphorical glass ball you were talking about? Everyone already knew it was a metaphorical glass ball.”
“Got it.”
“You do realize, Dad, that we can use some of this stuff against you,” says Magnus.
“Yeah, I know.”
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Writer and filmmaker Peter von Ziegesar lives in Brooklyn with his wife and family. He started his memoir, The Looking Glass Brother, (St. Martin's Press, 2013, Picador Paperback, 2014) after his long-lost stepbrother, "Little Peter," a homeless former violin prodigy, appeared in the streets outside his Greenwich Village home just when the author and his wife were preparing to start a family. Booklist and Publisher’s Weekly gave The Looking Glass Brother starred reviews, with Donna Seaman, Senior Editor at Booklist, calling it, "a piercing, thought-provoking portrait of a many-branched American family." Kirkus Reviews praised the book as a “vivid, frequently elegiac memory piece," and added, "It’s as if characters wandered out of an Auchincloss novel to encounter Kerouac’s bunch."
- find his book on Facebook or Amazon.
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